The Difference Between Cats Playing and Fighting

Relaxed posture, taking turns, ears forward signal safe fun. 

Body Language

Play includes inhibited biting without applying too much pressure.

Gentle Biting  

Play is quiet. Yowls or hisses signal fear, anger or excessive discomfort.

No Yowling

peaceful interaction afterward - no lingering signs of stress.

Happy Afterward

Flattened ears, attacking face/belly, prolonged intense vocalizations all more concerning.

Aggressive Behaviors

Posture, swatting with claws out, distress calls mean things have gone too far.

Signals

After skirmish, tend to each cat's well-being before gradually reintroducing once calm.

Separate & Comfort

How to deal with a finicky cat